I have made some enemies after the Women are Scum too article, that could not be helped. However, I will not rest my quills and continue to wield the truth no matter whose ox is gored.
Truth is a bitter pill to swallow but, swallow it, we must.
Growing up as a man is already hard enough, however, between the two genders we men tend to find things difficult.
Society has conditioned us to fight always for whatever it is that we want and as such we are never handed down things unlike our female counterparts .
This is not to say that they have always had it easy but they get off the hook easily in most cases.
Let’s take a moment to paint a small picture; imagine two young children – a boy and a girl – probably around six years old and both are engaged in a fight. Guess who gets the lighter punishments?
No… Really… I want to hear your answer.
Even when the female is at fault, she would usually get away with a light tap on the wrist and some bullshit scolding like:
“Don’t do that again, ok?”
Or, “Ladies don’t fight!”
The boy, on the other hand, gets an unholy can of epic ass whooping unleashed upon him by the adult who should be teaching fairness and justice.
Annoying statements such as;
“Do you not know she is a girl and you are a boy?!”
The righteousness in their eyes when they scream such folly…
Well, every young man has had this experience and thus we are always told to always allow the women to take the lead or we are cautioned to go easy on them… Even when the man is the victim.
I will never be in support of violence, no matter the reason, violence is unacceptable. My stance is less of an agreement with the norms of the society and a strong resolution made by a man with a functional moral compass.
Women these days are quick to point accusing fingers at men for everything and anything, and our timelines on social media are thus filled with statements such as men are scum.
Which seems to be further enhanced by the feminist movement that is trending on social media and in most scenario we often tag them as DAUGHTERS OF CHIMAMANDA.
Wetin dey even worry that Chimamanda girl kpa kpa?! Her own don too much.
We should not get it twisted, there are strong and good women out there. Women who challenge and shame the philosophy that says ”I AM BETTER BECAUSE I AM A MAN!!!”
Truth is that whenever we see an individual with a good head on his or her shoulder, we respect them. It doesn’t really matter what gender the person is.
Deborah, the prophetess, led the Isrealites in an era where women were seen as just sperm-receptacles (no offense), and they allowed themselves to be judged by her.
Boudicca, the warrior queen of the Iceni tribe of Britain, united her people against the Romans when their needs were dire.
Condolezza Rice was the 2nd female Secretary of State, 2nd African American to hold the same position and the first female to serve as National Security Advisor to the President of the United States.
Notice how all these women were surrounded by men in times where women didn’t really have a voice and yet they stood out?
Women are becoming delusional with this whole feminism movement, in the words of one of the few men respect;
It is no longer a movement that seeks to enlighten us on the issues that plague the female gender, but it is leaning towards a foolish dimension that no longer touches on gender Equality but rather a deep and biased hatred for men
Harsh, but I agree with him totally.
This movement is now spawned out of the fact that they feel that they can use their status as women and get public sympathy
The problem is not the fact that they want to show us their strength but the method by which they show that strength.
In the course of showing strength they are hurting relationships and marriages as the case may be.
Few weeks ago the Berger to Ajah scenario trended on twitter (if you know you know) and we were entertained with accusations and counter-accusations but the question remains who is to blame?
As every girl, these days, have made Twitter an avenue to report sexual crimes instead of the relevant authorities all in the name of feminism.
You do not demand for respect rather you earn it irrespective of the gender.
You cannot ask to be treated equally with men without putting in the work that we put in.
How can you ask for equal pay without requesting to put in the same hours as we men.
Do not get me wrong, I was always fighting for equal rights for women not until some few years ago. I had an epiphany of sorts and realised then that we are all getting it wrong…. what they should be fighting for is equal opportunities.
Females feel that because they are females that they can get away with anything. This, sadly, is true for most cases but such mentality is doing them more harm than good.
However, they should cease to play the vulnerable card whenever things do not go their way instead they should learn to put in the work and take it in their stride and move on as the rest of us do.
Everyone needs to know their place in the grand scheme of life. Women are angels and men are demi-gods but we cannot exist without one another.
However, I believe I speak on behalf of all the nice guys the world when I say:
Can you women just stop this whole girl-power and feminist thing already?!
Men are actually sick and tired of it, especially the good ones who are ready to love and protect you. We do not need another margret thatcher to challenge us in life.
We need to realise that despite the fact that we need each other, this does not give us the licence to hurt the other, as such; we should be mindful of our actions and stop all this gender bullshit going on around.
Like, what the hell! Can’t we just get along?
Let’s just eat and drink and love and fuck whilst making the world a better place.
Do what you must and the respect due you will come your way. If you have to fight for it, then you are not doing something right.
P.s: I have scored me a few haters and I have been called immature as well because of the fever from the Women are Scum Too article.
Well I am just being me.
Thanks for the love anyways…
It has also come to my notice that many did not believe when Kane, the Uncaring, stated in more words than is normal for him, that he was not Thöriniel.
To this effect… I, Thöriniel, will be doing an exposé on my humble controversial self but it depends on the feedback.
Who wants to know who THÖRINIEL is?
A show of hands would work just fine.